It's the same old scenario played out in television shows and movies repetedly. The husband wants to "express his love" physically and the wife complains to have a headache to get out of having to do it. But it isn't always like this. Sometimes, the wife who is thinking "Physical. Pysical. I wanna get physical...." and the hubby is too tired, not in the mood, to lazy... and for whatever reason is just not in the mood. I think for a woman to get turned down is worse than for a man. I mean, for the guy, it sucks, but whatever, they probably don't take it too personally. Women, on the other hand, will feel the must be repulsive or so disgusting that their man doesn't want to have sex with them. We're thinking, guys are supposed to be the ones who want it all the time...for them to reject me must mean I'm THAT ugly, fat, repulsive, unattractive, unsexy....
Many couples have mismatched sex drives.
Well here are some links to different sites regarding sex drive:
http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/couples/relationshipissues/mismatchedsexdrives
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_sex_drives.htm
http://www.patrickholford.com/content.asp?id_Content=642
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Welcome to Life After the Altar
Being a newlywed is fun, exciting and, at times, a surprising adventure. It is that time right after the monumental event that most have anticipated their entire lives; life after a wedding. So much time and focus is spent on planning this one day event, and a lot less emphasis and planning seems to be put into the marriage that comes afterward, which should last a lifetime. Just as it takes a lot of planning and work to get to the altar, it takes effort, patience and planning to happily make it to that one year mark, as well as the many anniversaries to follow. Just as you MUST plan for a successful wedding, you must plan for a successful marriage. Here you will find topics relating to marriage that will help you prepare for the journey ahead, along with fun tips and ideas couples can use to enrich their relationship and help achieve unity and harmony in all areas of their marriage. This site will cover all topics from money issues, children, religion, sharing a home and responsibilities, maintaining friendships, In-laws, as well as topics like Romance, gift ideas, date and activity ideas and other tips on maintaining a household together.
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